Have you ever wondered how Judaism, Thanksgiving, and family values intersect in our cultural
and religious lives?
Judaism is centered on the belief in one God and following the teachings found in the Torah.
Jewish traditions and values emphasize community, education, and ethical living. Key practices
include observing the Sabbath, dietary laws, and celebrating holidays like Passover, Rosh
Hashanah, and Yom Kippur.
Thanksgiving, which is observed on Thursday, November 28th this year, is a holiday in the
United States that traditionally involves gathering with family and friends to give thanks for the
harvest and blessings of the past year. The holiday may have its roots in early colonial history,
particularly the Pilgrims’ feast with Native Americans in 1621, though it has evolved into a more
secular celebration focused on family, food, and gratitude.
Family plays a central role in both Jewish tradition and American culture. In Judaism, the family
is often considered the cornerstone of the community, with a strong emphasis on mutual
support, education, and maintaining traditions. Similarly, American values often emphasize
family cohesion, support, and the importance of gathering together, particularly during holidays
like Thanksgiving.
For Jewish families celebrating Thanksgiving, the day might be an opportunity to reflect on
shared values like gratitude and family togetherness, even if the holiday itself is not religiously
significant. Many Jewish families enjoy the festivities and incorporate their own traditions, such
as serving foods that align with kosher dietary laws. A tradition in my family meant incorporating
the Stranger Plate. Thanksgiving was already a large gathering of many generations in our
home. What’s one more seat at the table? If we knew of a friend or coworker who wasn’t able to
join their own tribe for the holiday, we welcomed them to our home.
To this day, I always have an extra place at the table. (What other Jewish holiday does this
remind you of?)
Overall, while Thanksgiving is not a Jewish holiday, it can still be a meaningful time for Jewish
families to connect with broader American culture, celebrate family bonds, and express
gratitude in their own way.
I would love to hear how you in the congregation celebrate this secular holiday. What Jewish
twist have you put on it?
Ann Berman
President of Congregation Ahavas Israel
